Back In The Saddle Again

In prior generations most people thought they were marrying for keeps. Now it is estimated that a good 50-60% of all marriages end in divorce, though in this day and age it is not unusual to get married several times. However, a high percentage of Baby Boomers are now finding themselves single. What does this has to do with Online Dating? Finding yourself single and not really knowing how to 'get back in the saddle again'...ya, you know what I mean.

Yes, it hasn't been that long since anyone who was using an online dating site would shutter if anyone found out that they were. This is no longer the case. Today online dating is not only mainstream but also socially acceptable. There are so many different reasons why people turn to online dating. Anything from being shy, to being housebound and everything in-between. Stats say that the largest group of online daters are (surprise) Baby Boomers.

Connecting online gives you a chance to slowly get to know someone. You don't have to do anything until you feel comfortable. As you spend time talking with people, getting to know them, you will find that you become more and more confident about yourself and taking a chance at love again.

Online Dating Questions?

If you are serious about using an online dating memebership site to meet people, to find friendships and/or a serious relationship, but you are not having too much success with the services you are currently using, here are some tips:

1. When joining any online dating membership site be sure to complete the membership profile as completely and honest as possible. If you are not comfortable answering any question(s) where anyone can read your response, don't leave it blank, put in it's place "ask me" or something along those lines. You won't seem to be very interesting if you leave most of the profile questions blank. The answers you've given don't seem realistic or it seems you haven't really thought much about your answers when there is no answer at all.

2. Include a photo of yourself. The photograph should be a very recent, and even if you are drawn to using someone elses photo - DO NOT. Your photo should be in color and show you from the shoulders up, at the very least (lower for some sites ). Most people on online dating sites, that are getting disappointing results, is because they don't have a picture posted. If you don't have a good one, have a friend take one!

3. Many online dating sites now allow you to upload a short video message. How wonderful!! Get yourself a webcam and have some fun creating it. Keep your message short, to the point (but honest and fun) and be sure that your face is visible and your voice is as relaxed as possible. Do it over and over before you submit it if you have to. Remember, this is YOUR first impression to your potential love.

4. Try different online dating sites and don't be afraid to spend $$ for a full membership. You'll get noticed more because you will have more options to contact you and you will have more options to contact others. Your online dating experience will be greatly enhanced!

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Elder Online Dating?!

I know, it sounds awful doesn't it. Let me explain the title...

I read an article today that said "online dating is possible at middle age". Ok, that wasn't too bad, but then went on to call Baby Boomers "elders". Now in some countries the term "elder" is held in the highest regard, however, Baby Boomers being called "elders" - I don't think so!!

So let's get down to the good stuff.

Baby Boomers are the up-and-coming Online Dating 'boom'. We are a huge market that are out there looking and we will, and are, changing the look of online dating. Millions of single Boomers are turning to online dating and are changing the focus of online dating membership sites as we change the direction of our love life.

Time to take the plunge - you bet!

Boomers you never have to be lonely. It doesn’t matter what time of day it is, Online Dating membership sites are open 24/7. You will always find someone online to chat to even if you haven't found Ms/Mr right yet.

Highway to Love - Online Dating

The weekend is here and if you don't have a 'date' or 'boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife/partner' the thought of a weekend is dismal...right? It doesn't have to be!

Online dating may sound funny to a few, familiar to some, and scary to others, but don't let it be. If you think about emails or instant messenger, new connections are common.

If you decide to wander into an online dating site, number one you can begin the process for free. Secondly, you can provide information in your profile as to whether you want male/female connections, what age range, among so many other things you require and/or desire. When you do this, always make sure you have a 'handle', a nickname, something people will know you by that is not your real name (like "lovinu"). (I will tell you mine one day I promise :-)

So, don't let the weekend alone get you down. Check out the information on the site, take the plunge and try out an online dating service and see what happens.

Chances are Sunday night will come along and you will not know where the time has gone. Bet you will have many new 'friends' as well!

I will be here to help you along the online highway to Love!

Healthy Online Dating

When you do research on 'healthy online dating' usually the first topic that comes up is registering with the right online dating site and also a well written profile. I agree with both, no doubt about that, but I do think there is something else to consider - Who We Are!

As Baby Boomers we, in the majority of cases, have been there-done that-got the mug and the t-shirt. So what is most important before looking at online dating is knowing who we are AND even more importantly, know WHO we are looking for. Not just age, looks, financial situation, but what you want in a relationship. For example:

1. Skydiving or reading a book
2. Watch TV or make love
3. Ride a bike or site in a lounge chair

This may sound simple but do you see what I mean? You need to know the kind of person, the kind of relationship you want before you start dating.

Read more at www.babyboomerdatingsite.com

Are We Teenagers Again?

I am sure you wonder why I have that as a heading for this blog. I mean it is on Baby Boomers after all. Read on...

When it comes to dating "we" can be as nieve as we were when we were teenagers. You bet - and especially women. So what does this mean with online dating? Let me give you some pointers.

If someone is telling you things that you had always hoped to hear the chances are it is "a line" and be very/very careful. That does not mean that it is not the truth, but especially be careful when it comes to online dating, 'cause it is so easy to 'type' words that sound soooooo good, and feel sooooooo good to you, but do not always mean what you hope the words do.

Think back, think how careful you were when you "dated" way back when. (Yes some of us were for those of you who are laughing). Think about the look in the eyes, the sound of the voice, and yes the words were so important. They are still important now.

Just 'cause we are Boomers does not mean that we are not 'desired'. Hey - you know we are! Just keep in mind when online dating that you need to know you ARE desired, you ARE worth it and you NEED to pay attention to not just what someone types but how you read it.

Read more on this and other aspects on Baby Boomer Online Dating here: http://www.babyboomerdatingsite.com/online-dating-articles.html

Happy Connecting!

BabyBooU
aka
Jan

Wanted - Baby Boomers for Online Dating!

Think that sounds strange? Well I have to tell you that this is probably something you would see in ads in news papers, magazines and online from any online dating site, that is if you were looking.

Baby Boomers are the largest target market going these days when it comes to online dating - belive it!

Online dating sites are realizing that there is a huge population of us out there that are single, whether by choice or not, and looking. Hey we are the biggest market out there! What this means to 'us' is that we actually have some influence of what we want, or do not want, when it comes to online dating and what online dating sites offer us.

As a Boomer, and a Boomer that found love online, I can happily recommend the online dating sites I have up at:
http://www.babyboomerdatingsite.com/

The selection is not complete yet, but I want to make sure that I give you 'goods' the good ones.

As always :)

BabyBooU